Dish Fights

It seems like me and my parents would always get in a fight. Usually about things like dishes. I washing hate dishes!even now but I have learned that I need to do them when I'm told. What I regret is the fact that I never should have treated them like that. I mean my mom was sick for about four years and yeah we didn't know it but we did have signs like she would cough so bad that you thought she was going to die if she didn't get a glass of water. and my dad he has to get up at three a clock in the morning just to go to work. So I feel like I should have treated them better. I have told them all this before and they say I as just being a kid but I don't know I feel like I should of treated them better than I did. With things as hard as they are at home I see just how much my miss behaving harts those around me. I can remember times when I would get my dad so mad for not getting the dishes done that he would get me up at three a clock in the morning to do dishes. We'd fight and I'd struggle and eventually I would end up doing the dishes at four o'clock in the morning with tears running down my face. Usually this was after about a week of not doing dishes just because I didn't want to and I also felt like if I had to do the dishes I was going to do it on my terms. I of course realize that the world dose not work like this. The thing I have not told my parents is that I am sorry for being so stubborn and causing so much stress for my family. To my brother I'd Have to say that I'm sorry for those long nights that I kept him awake by fighting with my parents and for a the hurt feelings and bad habits/things that I have taught you.